"Everything is fine Suze, get spiffed up and go paint the town."
Stephen takes Isabelle and begins to gently rock her while singing an old Pete Seeger song in a voice loud enough to compete with the crying
Quote:
The Union is behind us, we shall not be moved.
The Union is behind us, we shall not be moved.
Just like a tree that’s standing by the water,
We shall not be moved.
We’re not afraid of gun thugs, we shall not be moved.
We’re not afraid of gun thugs, we shall not be moved.
Just like a tree that’s standing by the water,
We shall not be moved.
We’ll build a mighty Union, we shall not be moved.
We’ll build a mighty Union, we shall not be moved.
Just like a tree that’s standing by the water,
We shall not be moved.
We’re fighting for our children, we shall not be moved.
We’re fighting for our children, we shall not be moved.
Just like a tree that’s standing by the water,
We shall not be moved.
The gentle swaying and deep bass of his voice soothes Isabelle and she forgets to cry while listening to her Uncle's singing. When she settles down Stephen offers her a snack.
"Ana, come in the kitchen with me for a minute. I need to talk to you for a minute."
Ana tosses down the remote with a huff and stomps into the kitchen. Stephen hands an apple to Isabelle and motions for Ana to sit at the kitchen table; she sits with the dramatic flair that only a teenager can manage.
"Ana, I heard you telling your mom that you want to be treated like an adult, and I wanted to..."
Ana tries to interrupt with her side of things...
"She treats me like a kid and never lets me..." then abruptly stops talking when Stephen holds up his hand and shows her is serious face.
"Please take a breath and let me finish. I wanted to give you a gift of wisdom" Ana rolls her eyes
"Given to me by your Grandmother when I was about your age and moaning about how I was being treated.
In this world there are girls, gals, and women (I know that no one says gals anymore but Grandma was old school).
A girl is DEPENDENT - she needs other people.
A gal is INDEPENDENT - she can manage on her own and doesn't need other people so much."
Ana grins and says
"That's me, I'm a gal."
Stephen continues
"A woman is DEPENDABLE - she is there for other people and she can be counted on.
Your Mom is a woman, she is there everyday for everyone. Tonight is special because it so rare that she and your Dad take time for themselves.
If you want to be treated like a woman, show your parents that you're dependable. Help out around the house, do the dishes, or laundry, or cook dinner without being asked. Take care of your sisters when you see that they need help, not just when your parents ask you to help. If you want more responsibility and trust, first you need to show them you are ready - not just old enough but mature enough.
Be patient, your parents are busy and accustomed to thinking of you as a kid so they won't start treating you like a woman right away. Keep stepping up around the house and they'll notice. Does that make sense?"
Ana tilts her head and grins
"So Grandma told you how to be a woman?"
Stephen
"As I recall she told me I was a guy and suggested I start acting like a man or learn to keep my mouth shut. So whaddaya say I watch Isabelle and get dinner ready while you act like a woman and help Carmen get started on that summer reading assignment."
Ana looks slightly dejected
"And after dinner when Isabelle is asleep you choose the movie."
Ana smiles a little and sighs,
"Okay"
"And remember Ana, if you want to start a fight with your sisters try bossing them around, if you want them to actually do something try doing it with them or asking for help."
When Suze and Pedro come downstairs the TV is off. Ana and Carmen reading on the couch, Isabelle is on the floor in front of them flipping through picture books, and Stephen has the sauce simmering and the water boiling for Spaghetti.
Stephen holds his finger to his lips and makes a shooing motion for Suze and Pedro to go quietly.
Last edited October 24, 2020 10:57 pm