Not abscent, just somewhere else! We may be in the possible processes of buying a house, a house which I have coined The IF House to not jinx or evil eye it at all. So most of my brain is in that realm, the worst of all, the realm of possibilities, and thus can barely afford a bit of mental memory for anything else. For me it is the most stressful of things, and I have both moved and gotten a divorce. My brain cannot get out of the tedious web of possibilities, though everyone around me says it is gong to be alright.
Thus, obviously, my posts will be delayed.