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kaekozee

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Apr 14, 2025 6:23 am
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About me:
Name: Kaede or "Kae"
Joined: March 24, 2025
Age: 37
From: Pacific Northwest, USA (Originally from the Midwest)
Professional: Parks & Recreations
RPG Interests: Most fantasy, but I favor cozy fantasy, slice-of-life, and games with lots of opportunities for character interaction, exploration, and growth, as well as creativity. I cut my teeth on D&D 3.0, and have experience with a decent number of main-brand systems (D&D, Pathfinder, etc.), as well as quite a few niche games (Lancer, OVA, Ryuutama, Golden Sky Stories). I currently run a classic fantasy PF2e game, a food-centric cozy fantasy D&D 5e game, and I play in a few others. I also designed my own RPG system entitled Fables & Foxtales, which I'll be playtesting sometime later this year.
Non-RPG Interests: Writing, Food, Napping, Off-Season Camping, Anime, Manga, Collecting Cute Plushies, Origami Ikebana, Collecting MtG Cards but Never Playing.
Other: In a Relationship, Heeler/Husky Mom, Yuri Trash, Asexual, Self-Proclaimed Hippiepunk Cozycore Otaku, #allmyfriendsareonline


Ask Me Anything.
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kaekozee
Apr 14, 2025 12:35 pm
Favourite cheese?
Apr 14, 2025 12:39 pm
Alrighty, will get the ball rolling:
actually, someone's beat me to it!

-Tell us the weirdest thing that happened to you while camping off-season (reeeeally hoping for a cryptid story 😁)

-Cozy settings require cozy comfort food! What's your favorite snack that you can have while crafting your next epic post at the keyboard?

-is your doggy a crossbreed, or do you have 1 Heeler AND 1 Husky? And can we see them? 😅
Last edited April 14, 2025 12:42 pm
Apr 14, 2025 12:54 pm
Dr_B says:
And can we see them? 😅[/f]
Seconded!
Apr 14, 2025 1:09 pm
Kaekozee says:
Yuri Trash, Asexual, Self-Proclaimed Hippiepunk Cozycore Otaku, #allmyfriendsareonline
I saw this and immediately thought it felt very familiar!

So what have you been reading recently, and do you have any recommendations for ace representation? :3
Apr 14, 2025 1:59 pm
May I see some of the origami ikebana? :3 Paper green friends!

Also, which MTG card you have is your favourite and why?

When are we getting the Fables & Foxtales playtest? :P
Apr 14, 2025 2:06 pm
Any advice for people who are terrified of camping?
[ +- ] I ask because
Congrats on designing your own system! I do that for my own games, so I’m interested in hearing the perspective of someone who does this:
Why make your own system when so many systems exist?
Apr 14, 2025 4:03 pm
What are you currently writing, or have most recently finished writing?
Apr 15, 2025 2:19 am
Lemming23 says:
Favourite cheese?
To put on things, or just in general?

In general, I'd say brie tends to be my favorite. I bought some on a whim when I was straight out of uni to try and feel more adult, ended up loving it, and now I regularly keep some on hand for snack time.

Otherwise, I cook the most with mozzarella and asiago. Midwesterners are nutjobs for casseroles, and though I no longer live there, I'm no exception. All of my neighbors ask me to make them whenever there's a barbecue, so I assume they're good.

I also really enjoy putting string cheese in things and baking them. Stuffed garlic bread. Mmmmmmm...
Dr_B says:
-Tell us the weirdest thing that happened to you while camping off-season (reeeeally hoping for a cryptid story 😁)
I dunno about cryptids, though I live in an area that is really into sasquatch. We even have a Squatch fest here, and there are literally tons of cutouts and carvings of it standing out in random fields or by river crossings. But as for the weirdest thing to happen to me, specifically, I'd have to say it was one of my first real solo camps, which occurred in the Black Hills National Forest in South Dakota. Middle of the night, hardly any sound except for bugs and frogs, and I'm just starting to get to sleep when out of nowhere, I hear something outside of my tent. And it sounds really close. Not big, but still aggressive, and I wait for it to go away in absolute terror. And of course, it doesn't, and moments later, I hear what sounds like an epic struggle for survival between two unidentified creatures right next to me. Something even pushes slightly into my tent. I scream, everything bolts, and then it goes suuuuper quiet.

Never found out what caused it. There wasn't any damage, but I can still vividly remember the sounds and that feeling of something pushing against my tent. Maybe it was a territorial battle, or maybe something saved me from being hunted--I'll never know.
Dr_B says:
-Cozy settings require cozy comfort food! What's your favorite snack that you can have while crafting your next epic post at the keyboard?
Granola clusters! I'm a rather big fan of dried stuff, like fruits and berries, and granola clusters are just the most ideal. I keep a couple bags on the shelf of my desk, so I can just reach for them and spoon it into my mouth while I'm writing, watching videos, or playing games.

That said, if you want my favorite comfort meal, then oyakodon or smothered tofu are my biggest ones. I'm a big rice bowl eater, and there's literally nothing cozier to me than rainy days snuggled into a big blanket, my dog squished into my side, a steaming rice bowl in my lap, and binge-worthy anime on the tv. Usually I also have LoreForge open on my other screen. :3
Dr_B says:
is your doggy a crossbreed, or do you have 1 Heeler AND 1 Husky? And can we see them? 😅
Crossbreed! She's a rescue pup who I got in 2020 right before/as COVID hit my area cause I wanted a friend to start a new chapter in my life with (I had so many plans in 2020. WHAT HAPPENED ;-;) Here's a pic of her one night last year during our big move out west:
[ +- ] Katyusha
Tickettbror says:
[quote="Kaekozee"]So what have you been reading recently, and do you have any recommendations for ace representation? :3
Gawwwwwd, I wish!!! Sadly, there just aren't many with good--or any ;-;--ace rep, or if the characters are, it just isn't spoken of. I like to headcannon pretty much every yuri/wlw I read to have an asexual element if they don't otherwise mention a sexual aspect. One that comes to mind is a character from Rebecca Thorne's "Can't Spell Treason Without Tea", which features a non-binary character who, to me, screams asexual.

I wish I had a book I could recommend that does, but sadly, I, too, am in search of such a legendary grimoire. If you know any, I wanna hear!

However, if you want what I've been reading recently, my top 3 reads over the past 6 months include:

"A Tale of the Secret Saint", a light novel by Touya
"Witch's Printing Office", another light novel by Mochinchi
and "Polgara" by David & Leigh Eddings

Bonus Yuri Pick: "Chasing After Aoi Koshiba". I'm on vol. 3 of the manga and its breaking my heart and making me angry. You know how it goes :p
FlyingSucculent says:
May I see some of the origami ikebana? :3 Paper green friends!
Hmm, I might have a picture or two tucked away in my Discord messages. Will get back to you! Its weird cause, like, I take a ton of selfies and pics of my dog, or sometimes I might take a picture of my house if I did a really good job cleaning, but I feel like I rarely take pictures of things that I craft. I wonder why that is? 🤔

I tell you what, I'll make one this weekend and take a pic of it, just for you :3
FlyingSucculent says:
Also, which MTG card you have is your favourite and why?
I'm a really big fan of Angel cards. One of my favorite 'set' buys was "Divine vs Demonic", which has the "Akroma, Angel of Wrath" card in it with super pretty art. However, my favorite card in that set (and probably my favorite card ever) is the Twilight Shepherd. She's just. So. PRETTY. I use her likeness as a 'face claim' for the avatar a goddess in my homebrew setting :3
[ +- ] Some of my faves from Divine vs Demonic
FlyingSucculent says:
When are we getting the Fables & Foxtales playtest? :P
Hehe, its in the works! However, since it is getting towards the peak season where I work, I've chosen to put it on hold until at least this fall when things calm down again and I have oodles more time. The game I have planned for the playtest is...ambitious, to say the least in terms of scale. The idea being that the bigger it is, the more opportunities there will be to test a variety of things and see how I want to expand and improve, so in the spirit of that, I want to make sure I have plenty of time to dedicate to it!

If you want a sneak peek of what that game entails, though, you're welcome to look at the wall of text I put over here! I'm also working on a Carrd site for the rules themselves, which I'll happily post when complete ^^
Legendary_Sidekick says:
Any advice for people who are terrified of camping?
A good question! Do they happen to like anime? If so, I highly recommend my all-time favorite cozy anime, Laid-Back Camp. It's literally about young high school girls who find joy in going camping throughout Japan, and touches on a lot of great subjects, like the do's and don't's of camping, traveling, and how to stay safe. It's what actually reignited my passion for it years ago, and almost everyone I recommend it to say that they have an itch to try it after watching even just a few episodes.

If not, however, I would just go with the basics. As a solo camper (+dog), it definitely is important so be alert and attentive to the environment. I try to stay aware of potential threats I could stumble across, and how to deal with them, and I keep a map and a bag full of fun gadgets and supplies in my day pack. Knowledge, as they say, is power, but its also piece of mind, so I find that being prepared really helps ease my nerves.

Planned activities help, too! For instance, I prep a lot of my meals, I bring lots of books, and my car is rarely far from my site, so I can cozy up in it if I need to. If its something they dislike, then it wouldn't hurt to take some amenities. You don't have to hoof it to be 'true camping', and anyone who tells you you're camping wrong is a jerk who needs to re-examine their life. Go all in on the parts you like, and cheat a little if it helps make the experience better.

It also wouldn't hurt to reiterate the point that they'll be in a (relatively) large group (I assume), which will dissuade a lot of things that might be brave enough to bother someone by themselves. That includes animals and people. To be honest, I get more worried about running into another person on a trail than I do a potentially dangerous animal.

Honestly, what drove things home for me is considering the goods vs the bads. Photography, dipping my feet into a running stream, fishing, collecting rocks and leaves, taking pictures of cool moths, the smell of a campfire, the taste of well-cooked camping meal, stargazing far from the city lights, and the sound of rain against your tent. Camping can be difficult, spooky, messy and uncomfortable, and it certainly isn't for everyone, but there's just so many fun things you can do outdoors! And so many great experiences to have, it'd be a shame to miss it.
Legendary_Sidekick says:
Why make your own system when so many systems exist?
Why not? 🤔 Why write a book when there's so many to read? Answer: its fun! And it gives me the freedom to create from the ground up where otherwise its often super hard to edit, mod, or balance an existing ruleset to do something it wasn't really made to do. Case and point, D&D has rules for a lot of things, but when you boil it down, its largely built to be a combat simulator, which is great if you want a combat-heavy game, but not so great if you want to have detailed mechanics for, say, fishing in a lake, cooking with strange new ingredients, or building your own house.

And sure, there are lots of games out there that do that. And I do, actually, know quite a few. Additionally, I've modded games, played with a lot of supplements, and even tried to smash two systems together (I did this with D&D and Ryuutama for a more exploration-based adventure, for instance). Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but each time I wanted to run something new, it usually required finding yet another new system to learn/try (and who has time for that?!) or spend a whole bunch of time trying to rebuild an existing game (which I usually end up breaking).

When I've built games, mods, supplements, etc. in the past, they've always been for some specific purpose. For instance, I built a game for running your own 'shop' or 'establishment' as a mod for Pathfinder, I built my own 'fishing simulator' for D&D 5e complete with its own 'battle mechanics', and I even built one to simulate a modern camping adventure. So I could run that game, but beyond that, I'd have to modify and start all over again.

Fables & Foxtales was the culmination of that. I wanted a game that I could easily incorporate all of my little subsystems into to make a whole new thing, specific to the kinds of games that I enjoy running and that I could expand on. Plus, since I built the game and I know the rules best, I'm the best person to try and fix, change, mod, or expand it.
[ +- ] Example (F&F Narrative 'Stats' & Goals) (PS: Long and windy, you've been warned)
Qralloq says:
What are you currently writing, or have most recently finished writing?
I have a few projects, but like most aspiring authors, most of them are unfinished for a variety of reasons. The last thing I 'finished' was over 7 years ago, it was a short-story intro for one of my longer novels where a young sorceress apprentice discovered an ancient earth dragon and accidentally turned it into her familiar.

As for 'in-progress', here are my main ones:
[ +- ] My Unholy Empire
[ +- ] DIY Dungeon Master
I also have a sapphic cozy rural fantasy about a retired adventurer and an abandoned witch, as well as a supernatural detective mystery about a dynamic duo of one girl who can see things no one else can, and a precocious necromantic noble girl. Plus lots of little 'extras' that get attention when I feel inspired.

(PS: I should note that all of my books are set in the same world, so lots of potential cameos and crossovers too!)
Last edited April 15, 2025 2:33 am
Apr 15, 2025 2:51 am
The off-season camping is interesting. Are you out in the snow? Do you stay local or do you have spots you head to for a particular experience? (Not necessary to name the exact locations) Is there a "nope" threshold where you won't go?
Apr 15, 2025 3:49 am
Phil_Ozzy_Fer says:
The off-season camping is interesting. Are you out in the snow? Do you stay local or do you have spots you head to for a particular experience? (Not necessary to name the exact locations) Is there a "nope" threshold where you won't go?
Off-Season camping is great! And you don't necessarily have to go in the dead of winter. You'll see a huge decline in activity (at least in terms of people) when school terms start, so we're talking early-to-mid fall, even, when things start to settle down. In the park that I work at, for instance, our 'peak' season ends in late-August to around mid-September, and we get maybe a quarter of the number of visitors, with the exception of a few event weekends (particularly clam digs).

As for your questions, yes! I have camped in the snow before. You need to have a really good tent, though, and I honestly do not recommend camping below 35° F without some kind of heater or a really well-built shelter + well-maintained campfire. Most of my gear is rated for winter weather, but even still, on nights when it gets colder than expected, I keep a little propane heater in my car. I'd really love to eventually have a biiig tent with a nice wood stove attachment in it for drive-in camping.

I do both. The Pacific Northwest, where I live, is home to a looooot of beautiful wilderness and sights. I live a 5 minute walk from the beach, and within 1 hour drive to a lovely mountain range, not to mention labyrinthine forests as far as the eye can see, dotted with marshy wetlands. I do not have to go far for a great experience!

That said, I do like to roam, but haven't gotten the chance to take lots of trips as I only just moved here a year ago. When I lived in the Midwest, I would take long weekend trips to places like the Black Hills of South Dakota, or up to the Arkansas mountains, and now and again the Colorado Rockies. Since moving here, the Northern Cascades, Mount Rainier, and Mount St Helens are all on my bucket list.

"Nope" threshold? Not particularly. I do avoid tourist-y places, though, and I shy away from anything that requires me to drive near the edge of a mountain cliffside. Odd as it may seem, I love vistas and beautiful views, but I'm terrified of heights. You should've seen me try to walk across the Royal Gorge bridge, I was basically a scarecow.
Apr 15, 2025 3:50 am
What is your favorite cozy/slice of life fantasy RPG? Have you played any in contemporary or sci fi settings?

What is the most recent plushie you collected?
Apr 15, 2025 4:10 am
Redcroc says:
What is your favorite cozy/slice of life fantasy RPG? Have you played any in contemporary or sci fi settings?
Video Game or TTRPG? I'll answer both!

Video game-wise, I adore games like Luna's Fishing Garden, Spiritfarer, and Minami Lane. They're just so nice and peaceful, and such an absolute vibe if you want to unwind and feel happy. I'd also argue that I love exploring the biomes of Subnautica, as long as you avoid the leviathans :P

As for TTRPGs, that's difficult to answer. There have been a lot of games in the past that skewed cozy, but weren't cozy systems. Off the top of my head, the top 3 coziest scene I've ever played out occurred during two different PTU (Pokémon Tabletop United) games, and neither situation really involved much in the way of mechanics. They were just cute scenes! One was a 'sleep over party' where my character and the other girls in her dorm watched a Pokemon-esque version of The Last Unicorn, and we also has a cute rom-com scene in the school library between that same character and her at-the-time crush.

If I had to name a system, though? I'd be hard-pressed to choose between Ryuutama and Golden Sky Stories, as both games have a cozy, slice-of-life vibe. In the former, you play normal people who go on grand adventures, which can skew in all sorts of directions, but the book itself presents lots of options for cozy games with low stakes. On the other hand, Golden Sky Stories, is all about little spirit/yokai-folk experiencing life and helping people in a small town, so its meant to be very emotional and 'cutesy'.

I also can't get away without at least mentioning the Witch+Craft and Dragon Stew supplements for D&D 5e, which both have just an absolutely adorable vibe. You should absolutely check them out if you want to run a more chill campaign sometime.

And yes, I have played both contemporary and sci-fi. I played a Traveller game once that was all about a group of characters that basically 'won' a whole planet and decided to terraform it into our own private paradise.
Redcroc says:
What is the most recent plushie you collected?
My girlfriend got me an adorable fox squishmallow for last Christmas! Before that, I think it was my tiny fire slime that I keep on my entertainment center.
Apr 18, 2025 2:59 pm
@kaekozee - I appreciate the detailed response! And yes, without adding to your eloquent points, I agree: it’s fun to design and easier to start with a blank slate than it is to hack.
Apr 18, 2025 6:41 pm
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[ +- ] Katyusha
awww, what sweet expression!

Great camping story!

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