vagueGM says:
What I was proposing does not change how people would use these OOC comments and discussions, needing different tag to make them work breaks all the previous discussions.
New features don't always need to be backwards-compatible, and I don't think this is the case where it is necessary.
(Also it's a personal thing again, but it will change how I use OOC comments. Because I'll start avoiding adding links. And I dread that if it becomes an automatic change for all threads I'll be stuck with references on my posts which I can't even ask people to remove because the users are inactive.)
vagueGM says:
I would like to hear from them about what they dislike, then we can work to make something that works. Not dismissing your viewpoint, but asking for more.
I would expect a reference to be something that's meaningful (edit: clarification, meaningful to another user - compliments are meaningful to the poster, but probably much less to another user) to connect to the post. If I look through the references and all I see are "this post contained X info", "Y event happened here", "nice post" and "you made a typo here", I'm going to be slightly peeved about it and start avoiding checking references at all.
It's nice if it's a discussion about mechanics or some relevant conversation about lore, but more casual mentions just seem unnecessary.
Also I agree with emsquared about superficial communication - in cases where people use it as a replacement for "Discord reaction" style of responses. Granted, this is probably more about comments than references. (This thread is a bit mixed with what we are discussing, isn't it? XD)
vagueGM says:
If 20% did care, then we have a problem we need to deal with.
Where it comes to websites, I'm a believer in the needs of majority, I guess! Especially if the minority is very minor.
vagueGM says:
Maybe we should shelve this aspect till we have a better idea of how it would work, then we can work out how we choose to opt-in. None of the opt-in options should be very tricky to implement, it is more about how people would want to use them.
True, I was just mentioning it in advance to point out that not everyone (me) is going to be comfortable with it being the default. Feels like it's easier to state position in advance than to suddenly oppose it when it's almost done. Probably.
Didz says:
You say you don't want other players to make comments about you posts
That's not what I am saying.
I am saying that I don't want
links attached to my posts which I can't have control over. If people comment about my posts, I have nothing against it. But the moment this comment is forever tied to this post in a way I can't ignore (as in I'll always see this reference while looking at the post), then I'm getting antsy.
Didz says:
As for the objection to having a comment tied to a post, it actually seems to me that if the comment is not tied to a post then it is essentially pointless and not even an OOC comment at all.
My objection is to a
technical tie. If someone says "I'm commenting about your post X", then it's all dandy. But if this causes said post to have "Someone commented about it here" attached to it, then I don't like it because I can't remove it.
Didz says:
Surely the whole point of an OOC comment is to distinguish it from an in-character comment. But if you are posting in another thread why would this even be a probability?
I think there is a bit of a misunderstanding due to terminology. Personally I call *all* non-roleplay posts OOC posts - whether it's about mechanics, something unrelated to the game or whatever comments about posts. Just to make sure we aren't confusing each other! :D
Didz says:
I entirely respect FlyingSucculent's right to ignore the feedback from the rest of his player group.
Please don't put words in my mouth. Never have I stated that I don't want to see feedback from the player group. I assure, this is absolutely not what I'm talking about.
I feel like you are entirely misunderstanding my problem with this feature. I don't have a problem with comments about posts. I have a problem with
me not wanting to have references attached to my posts. Nothing else, nothing more. If you can propose a solution of implementing comments/references in a way which guarantees that I won't have references on my posts before I explicitly consent to it, I'll be full in support!
(I don't know if it's a good comparison, but I don't generally like Discord reactions on servers for the exact same reason.)
Bottom line is, I know my objections to this are not something most users will have. Anxiety is not a rational thing, I can't explain to you why it bothers me if you don't feel the same. Sometimes, it is just a feeling.
PS: sorry if any of my comments are harsher than intended, I'm not always good with tone. I don't want to argue with anyone, just explain my position.
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