gnomius says:
I'm not sure whether I quite get the difference between the Consort and Sway actions. Descriptions from the book say:
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For me, they are very very similar and somehow overlapping. Both seem to imply using your charm to lie or get the information you need. Am I missing important details here?
Yes, indeed. There is overlap in a lot of them. This is by design (which does not mean it is not a bit of a pain, John admits her was fixated on the 4x4 symmetry and there probably should be fewer Actions).
First: Take a look at
page 170 of the book --which goes into a bit more detail. See if that helps clear things up, then ask again. (I don't want to duplicate what it says there, you have to read it anyway, so it is not like at the table where I would try explain:).
Remember these are deliberately called "Actions" and not "Skills". These are the things you are doing, they say very little about the way you are doing them.
Remember that you guys get to say what Action you are rolling, I don't get to decide what you can and cannot do.
But you also do also need to first show your Character
doing the Action in the fiction, so there is very little realm for abuse.
Unfortunately, this is a bit of a lie, since the GM gets to say how much effect the Action can have, so they really
do get to say 'you can't', just in a roundabout way. I run all my games openly, if the group thinks (actually thinks) an Action is the right one, and that it should have better effect, then that is the truth.
That said: The most common difference between Sway and Consort is how people will feel about it afterwards. Consort was you having fun with them and they did a thing. Sway is you persuading them to do a thing. After a Sway they may resent
you if they have problems stemming from it, after a Consort they may wish they had not been so drunk, so something, and commiserate with you about the trouble.
Command is the harsher cousin of these two. It is, pretty much, 'bossing people around'. Your friends might not like it and might stop being your friends after a while if you keep Commanding them to do things.
As the text says: Consort only works with Friends and Contacts, (though you can use to
make friends) and takes some time socialising. A Quick lie can work on a shopkeeper, but that is probably Sway.
For your merchant's daughter: 'trade, haggle, lie' could be Sway if they are one-and-done deals, but could also be Consort if you wine and dine them, for instance, to get a favorable relationship and deal.