millyk says:
... but honestly I have not a lot of exp here and in one game that I am takes too long or on the other hand once I got kicked out, because I was late to response...so I havent found a good game for my standards yet here...
Unfortunately, that is also a part of pbp, games and players and DMs can be hit or miss, some you'll vibe with some you'll get into and realize you don't, and any of them can end in a flash unexpectedly.
But that's also actually a part of IRL games often (if you're gaming with random strangers IRL) too in my experience, isn't it? Not something unique to pbp. It's just that in pbp you've possibly invested more time, not in aggregate, but in length of time spent hoping, lol so I think it can feel more crushing than "normal" games going bad.
I used to be like you, involved in 3 or 4 games IRL at my peak, then I took an arrow to the knee. Er wait, I mean, then I had kids. Same thing tho
Anyway, I hope you find something to your liking here. You seem reasonable, nice, and thoughtful. And the pbp/Discord mix sounds interesting to me. But even if that aspect doesn't work out, I think you'll be able to find an official module game pops up here sooner or later if you give it some time.
Good luck!