She did good. She took 3rd overall, which isn't quite what we hoped for, but nothing we're ashamed of either.
She went in seeded #2. Things pretty much went as we expected the first two days, won all of her matches by pin through the quarterfinals. Ran into #3 in the semifinals and got beat.
My daughter made a mistake in the first period of the match, and the other girl jumped on it and capitalized on it and put us down 5-0, and then the #3 girl spent the rest of the six-minute match fleeing the mat, running, stalling, and basically just playing games to ride out the clock for three periods.
It's technically a legit win for the girl; it was a
strategy for sure. I'm not saying we got robbed or anything. But it's generally considered a "low form" of wrestling in the sport's community, and not a style I respect at all.
But we also know it was going to be messy when any of the top three seeded girls finally met up, so it is what it is.
My daughter wrestled through the consolation bracket after that, and wound up with the #4 seed for 3rd and 4th place. Her 3rd/4th place match was a really a good brawl. She won a 10-4 decision in the end, but both girls walked off the mat bloodied, and mat-burned, and wearing ice bags on body parts, and just generally looking like they had a bat-fight instead of a wrestling match. They evidently earned one another's respect enough that they decided to become friends afterwards, and have been sharing Snapchat thingies back and forth multiple times a day since I've learned.
#3 seeded girl we lost to had the #1 seed in the finals, tried the same stalling garbage, but it didn't work out so well for her a second time around. She was a senior and finished her high school career never winning a state title she wanted, because she never figured out that that passive wrestling sometimes wins matches, but rarely wins titles. It's a shame because she was part of our club. I taught her how to wrestle, and our club never taught that passive wrestling trash. She picked that crap up from her high school coach when she because a freshman, and honestly it's why she never won the state championship title she always wanted. But she made her own bed, and she'll live with those choices.
I'm a little raw still, I suppose, but I'm happy with the 3rd Place finish too, because it was a hard won 3rd. If she had won another State Title but wrestled the way #3 did all weekend to earn it, I would be disappointed with her. But she wrestled through every match really tough... Constantly pushed the pace and attacked, maintained constant pressure on her opponents. Just wrestled a very aggressive style of wrestling we teach and expect from out athletes every match. That's what I really care about, so 3rd Place at High School State this year is fine.
She took that loss
really hard, though, tbh... She won state as a freshman last year and her big dream was to be the state's first female four-timer. A lot of people in the state though she would be. There's was a lot of pressure leading into this weekend and she was handling it well, but that loss crushed that dream forever. That's one of those matches that haunt you, and you just play over and over and over if you let it have room to run around your head. She cried on her momma's shoulder so hard after that one... It took a lot of work to get her head back in it and remind her she still had a job to finish and she needed to put it aside for the rest of the day.
It'll probably stick with her for long, long days to come, but hopefully it puts a little chip on her shoulder and she uses it to get better next year.
High school season's over now though for the year and she was already sitting down last night, planning her post-season plans and tournament schedule for this year... couple tournaments in Iowa she's looking to go to, one in Texas she wants to do... Mostly all the stuff we just give her money and put her on a greyhound bus, make hotel accommodations for when she gets where she's going, and tell her "Good luck; we'll be watching online. Call us after your matches, kiddo." So I guess she's fired up and hungry...
I DM a 5th Edition campaign for her, and my youngest son, and two of their cousin's. We get together and play after school at my parents house, but the campaign (Lost Mines of Phandelver) has been on hiatus since her season started, so all the kids are already pretty excited to "get the band back together" on Wednesdays.