Avraham says:
@GreyWord If you wouldn’t mind, so long as my character continues the fiction of using the name Roland, would you please refer to him as such in your posts?
Sylvanor has no idea his real name is "Kyle", as per discussion with runekyndig above. Thank you.
Y'know, Avraham, the simplest way to make sure this is as easy as possible for your fellow players is to just change the name on the character sheet for now. ;) Life would probably have been a lot easier for everyone if you'd done so from the start, so that nobody "knew" you were being less-than-truthful about it.
It's a pretty ingrained habit in people to refer to the name on the left, people are going to have a hard time dealing with that nuance.